Solace could be said to be an aspect of suffering. To seek it is to need it as a diversion or an escape from suffering. So instead welcome suffering see that which makes you suffer and deep within that will you find another solace. No need to escape when the suffering has been healed understood and put away. The door to that room can be closed and the room will disappear – till one day even the door disappears when the choice of solace is never chosen. True solace is bounty; the solace of escape is only relief from. Only when you have done so will you ever understand. How can you know or feel that which you keep from your reach. You will never know true solace till you need it not.